Avoid Mistakes In Bed
There are some mistakes that men will make in bed. This is probably some of the most important advice you will have to know because making these mistakes will only make you look like an inexperienced fool. There is a major rule that you should understand; if you she does not like it, then you are probably not going to have much luck in the future. You have to put her pleasure first. That is why we are going to share with you the mistakes men make in bed.
Common Mistakes Men Will Make In Bed
Going Straight For The Goods
A male is practically ready for sex in less than 60 seconds. This is not the same for women. It takes roughly about 20 minutes for a woman to reach a state of arousal. This is why foreplay is so important for her pleasure. If you barrel right in first thing, she's not going to be having fun. Take your time by kissing, petting and performing oral sex.
Not Acting Like A Man
When a woman is going to have sex, they typically want it to be with a man. When I use the word man, I mean the verb, not the noun. There is a specific behavior that women expect that they associated with a man. Control needs to be something you exhibit while you're in bed. You just can't lie back and hope she makes all the moves. A man is in control and leads the interaction in bed. Showing a little aggression is important too. I'm not saying that you need to go nuts, but there needs to be a bit of an animal that comes out.
Climaxing Too Quickly
You have to put her pleasure first because it is way too easy for you to reach your sexual climax. The worst thing you can do is prematurely ejaculate and finish. You're just being an idiot if she is left unfulfilled after you finish. Keep your thoughts on things other than your own sexual pleasure. Think of other things to get your mind off of what you're feeling, so you can last longer.
I'm sure you've seen pornographic movies before and they do all sorts of different positions. I'm sure you've imagined some great ones yourself. Just because they look cool doesn't mean they are comfortable and provide sexual pleasure. For example, the pile driver looks like a very cool move to do, but for a woman it is the most annoying thing she can do. It is uncomfortable and there is no pleasure associated with it.
Biting Too Hard
Biting can actually be a very erotic and arousing thing to do. It comes back to the animal instincts that we have. Doing a little light biting can really enhance your experience in bed, but it is a real problem when you bite hard or on the inappropriate places. Make sure you don't bite too hard and you avoid biting sensitive areas like the nipples.
These are the main mistakes that men make in bed. A lot of this is pretty easy to avoid. Don't be afraid to talk during sex. You might actually learn something. In the end, all women have their own unique likes and dislikes, so ask.
Thinking That She Will Swallow
When you are watching a porn, you may see that the actress will swallow when she gives a blow job. It is true that some of us will also want to try it. It is certainly a fantasy of men! However, it is important to understand that not all women want to do it. Do not think that she will always swallow! This is also true for a facial. You should avoid doing this especially when it is the first time of you and her. You should try to understand her. Of course this will not be a problem if you can see some signals that she will really swallow or want to being given a facial.
Unless you are the kind of man who has beard and moustache, you should shave before having fun with her. The idea here is that she may not feel comfortable when she is kissing you. Of course sometimes it can help to arouse her even when you do not shave. Yet, if you know that she does not like that feeling when kissing, you should shave beforehand.
Insert Into Her Bum Without Her Consent
Yes, it is very true that anal sex can be something very exciting. However, you never do it whenever you want. You should not do it without her signal of consent. This is true even you just want to try to insert your finger into her bum. You should respect her. You can consider discussing the matter with her beforehand so that you will know what you can do while you are having fun in the bedroom.
No Afterplay Or Even Ignore Her Afterward
You may know that foreplay is important. In fact, afterplay is also something important. You can kiss her gently when you finish. A piece of truth is that some men may even ignore his partner afterward. This is a big mistake in bed. You should never make this mistake. You need to consider her emotion. Talking to her afterward can certainly be a good idea.
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